When Embarrassment Stops You From Hiring an Accountant, Please Read This
Oct 05, 2026
The most common phrases I hear from business owners:
“I’m sorry I’m so behind. Let me just catch it up, and then you can take over.”
“I’m so embarrassed. This is really personal to me.”
“I know just enough in QuickBooks to be dangerous.”
And honestly, same. It took me a long time to be open about my finances. Now I share them all the time with my team...and with you.
Sharing your real numbers, the actual ins and outs of your business, can be incredibly triggering because it is rarely just about reports, trends, and compliance. We bring our entire relationship with money into our businesses. Debt. Growing up without enough. Living paycheck to paycheck. Fear of disappointing people. Feeling like we should be further ahead than we are. Feeling embarrassed because we don’t know where the money went or why the bank accounts aren’t fuller.
If I may bring you a little peace of mind and comfort to your soul, I see something very different when I look at your books.
I see someone who was brave enough to try. I see someone carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders. I see someone helping change their community, one client and one employee at a time.
The numbers simply show me where some of the pressure is coming from. And it is my job to give you options, find solutions that can lighten the load, and help you figure out what we do next.
Your financials are information and a rhythm of your business. They are not a measurement of your intelligence, your work ethic, or your worth.
So, if you have been avoiding your accounting because you are embarrassed about what someone might find? That’s okay.
But what if we shifted that thinking?
What if instead of being afraid of what we might find, we got a little excited about it?
Because somewhere inside those numbers might be the opportunity to pay off your debt, finally build your cash reserves, pay yourself more, and start building the kind of wealth you once thought was out of reach.
Maybe even become a millionaire!!!
Xo, Crys
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